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[quote=Anonymous]-Definitely something that's worth talking to your gyn about, and if they have no useful advice (which is ridiculous but often the case) ask them what specialist you should go see

-Understand that for many women it's normal for physical intimacy to lead to desire, and it's okay not to have this intense free floating desire, as long as you know that once you get started you will enjoy sex

-build some erotic space in your life (kind of like finding time to work out) to read an erotic novel or watch porn or fantasize or do whatever works to help you feel more sexual

-talk openly with your DH, and encourage him to find ways to build your erotic life outside of the once a week when you are actually having sex (and I agree with the pp who suggested thinking back to when you were first dating and what worked for you back then)

I think you have to get away from the idea that if it takes work it's not natural, and move to a mindset where you think if it's important to you then you invest time and energy it it.[/quote]

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