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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1. hire a lawyer.
2. get full custody of the kids.
3. make sure you tell the kids about her affair and make sure the kids blame her.
4. don't let her have your schedule bi-weekly visits with the kids.
5. tell all your family and friends she doesn't pay child support even if she does.
6. start all your sentences with "as a single father with no help from my ex....."
7. tell all your friends how hard life is and how much you sacrifice for the kids and bask in their sympathy.
8. suggest to your friends that they should also consider divorce every time they have a fight with their spouse because you feel so empowered by your divorce and that you and the kids are thriving.[/quote]

Are you my ex?  I am a man with a cheating ex dw and this nearly describes me. Except the part about telling the kids. [/quote]

I would add that the brother will go through a pathetic phase where he blames himself and enrolls in online courses to improve himself and desperately try to get her back from affair fog. Oh. And tons of stupid lonely drinking.

I wish I listened to my rational brother and skipped that phase. Though I am greatly empowered by my divorce!

I wish the brother were my friend. I’d walk him through exactly what to do. Starting with harnessing his shame and hate to drive him to lose his likely deep depression move his life in a positive direction. [/quote]

This sounds solid.  I wouldn’t try to get her back though.  No way.  I’m the type of person that once betrayed I can’t forgive...ever[/quote]

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