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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It drives me so nuts that this is all focused on the dil, where is the son!? If he’s failing to organize the visits and creates the closeness it’s somehow his wife’s fault that she does better by her family than he does by his?[/quote] Most women are more social and better at maintaining and organizing relationships than most men (obviously this is not true for all women or all men). That's a big part of why their families end up getting more time. [/quote] That’s a cop out. You’re telling me a man doesn’t know how to invite his mom over? He doesn’t know how to ask to visit? He doesn’t eat? He can’t point to a calendar and say “I will eat with my mom on this day”? [/quote] Guys just don't care the same. Dh doesn't want to talk to his parents daily. He calls his dad once a week and they don't really discuss family things. They talk about sports or politics. His mom wants him to call daily with specifics about our kids, which is what I like to talk to my mom about. [/quote] Sexist bs. Plenty of guys do care and manage the relationships. [/quote] Whatever. Dh loves our children and wants to discuss them with me but he just doesn't want to talk to his parents. [/quote] Fine, but then his mom shouldn't do any bullshit complaining about the "maternal advantage." [/quote]
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