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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Like most wives, her low drive is limited to her husband. I would have a better chance at sex with your wife than you do (and you with mine). It’s nothing personal, just how it goes in marriages where wife is the seemingly “low drive” partner.

Crap, that is depressing.
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Eh.  I am sure the situation is not the same for everyone, but a large part of the reason that I am not very interested in having sex with my husband is that he pretty much pays zero attention to me except when he wants to have sex. He's either watching sports with friends or playing video games with DS.  Never wants to go out, not too interested in what I have to say.  Who would be attracted to that?  I've never cheated and don't intend to, but I can see the appeal of another man who actually at least fakes some interest or gives some attention.[/quote]
I would wager your DH believes a large part of the reason he's way less attentive is your apathy towards sex. It really doesn't much matter who "started" this cycle, once it begins both of you are one little spark closer to the hot new guy/gal at work who (coincidentally!) has a no-sex wife at home, or a conversation-less DH. Yes, depressing, but makes it easier for those of us in such relationships to find a partner.[/quote]

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