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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry that people are being mean to you.  I hope you can find your way and I think that college will open up a whole new world for you.  It sounds like you’re almost out of high school, right?  Do you plan to go to college?  I think you’d love a more progressive city where you can kinda start over. Can you apply anywhere near NYC?[/quote]That's the thing; people weren't "mean."

They just started avoiding me. I was never bullied or harassed, I was just an outcast as in my friends no longer wanted to talk to me anymore. The only instance of homophobia was someone calling me a faggot, but that only happened one time. [/quote]

That sucks. Sorry to hear. Do you think it would have been different if you asked someone out that did not go to your school or were actively dating someone not at your school? 
For another perspective, the guys who are ignoring you believed that you were friends and knew you as a person. From their perspective, it now seems like you were faking one aspect of your life so what other things did you fake or lie about? They also realize they must not have really known you either. It might not even be their own homophobia but their parents or family. They know they won't approve of them having a gay friend. They should be above it but you yourself won't even come out to your own parents.

And do not kill yourself. A year from now, your life will be amazingly different and so much will happen. Don't miss out![/quote]

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