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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m going to agree with 20:56 - I have a friend whose parents did this. He’s struggled more as an adult than a younger person would have. 20 years later, he has a domestic partner instead of wife (not judging, just a fact that he distrusts marriage). He cut off a large number of friends from high school although we’re a pretty close group all over the world.

I really think this is the most devastating thing you can do to your children. It’s like “we were waiting on YOU, despite our own unhappiness”, and then puts it on them.

Own your unhappiness, and move along. Now or in a year won’t matter. [/quote]

I got divorced after kids in college. We told them we didn't want to miss one moment of them growing up. We told them they are our greatest acheivement and we love them more than anything in the world. We let them know our lives are set up in a way that they always have a safe place to go home to and to take risks. All birthdays and holidays are planned and easy.[/quote]

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