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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. If I felt I could endure the situation I would absolutely stay with my husband for the well being of my kids. However it is day to day sometimes and I know I can't stay in this relationship for the long run. So, I really appreciate the input about the effects on kids when they go to college. Maybe I will have to make it longer and wait. But, I will be my kids mother forever, and even though a divorce might be painful I think it is better than having a broken person as their mom for the rest of their life. I can fake it for a while but not forever. [/quote]

Does your husband even realize how bad you think it is?  My ex wife pulled the “I haven’t loved you for three years crap” and I had literally no idea. If he doesn’t really know you better tell him. Immediately. I have a long term hate situation based on having rug pulled out from under me. Don’t do it until he has specific articulable warning. You likely won’t find a better man if you’ve been with him this long. Selfishness. [/quote]

OP here. This is not our situation. If anything it is quite the opposite.[b] I guarantee he does not want to be with me, he has made this clear many times[/b].[/quote]

Then why are you together?  Is it a neurotic co-dependency?[/quote]

OP here. No, but thanks for the thought. I would have left a while ago if it were just me. It is financial. I don't have the financial ability to leave, it would destroy my children college situations. I am just too scared to do that and want to get them on their feet as young adults. What else am I to do, we saved to help put them through college our whole married lives and all of that would go out the door in a messy divorce I am just not willing to risk it.[/quote]

Would husband accept your living somewhere else without a divorce? So, a separation? [/quote]

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