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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Screaming  "YOU'RE NOT LISTENING TO ME" is what my daughter did when she was a toddler and frustrated when we told her no.

Your wife sounds mental.[/quote]

OP here, thanks. 
I told her that it is insulting and arrogant to presume that I'm "not listening" when I'm sitting there being yelled at. How could I hear anything else?
And if I weren't interested in listening, I wouldn't be standing there.

It sounds like to me, and I could be wrong here...but "you're not listening"="you're not agreeing or complying with me". [/quote]

I'm fascinated by the progression in this thread from "We fight occasionally, and it gets bad quickly bc we both have bad tempers" to "look at how undiagnosed crazy/violent my wife is [b]and how reasonable I am at all times[/b]."

File for divorce, OP.[/quote]

[b]Maybe I'm not reading closely enough but I don't see anywhere OP saying how reasonable he is. [/b]He did admit to starting fights and to seeking out help, etc. 
It seems like maybe you want to put this back on OP. [/quote]

10:57; 12:11.

You can find him believable.  I think he was telling something closer to the truth in the OP and is really enjoying the attention so has ratcheted the story in a less-believable direction ever since.  Opening with "our fights get angry and violent" but "the big problem is she leaves and drives around -- that's not fair, is it?" and then after some questioning suddenly she's shoved him down a flight of stairs?  Yeah, that's not how people tell true stories.  He's slow-playing this and in every post she gets crazier and he gets more sainted.  You can buy what he's selling if you choose.[/quote]

OP here, and frankly, you are an idiot.

I'm not enjoying at all whatever "attention" can be derived from this. I came here for advice and support, not to make myself feel better or sainted in any way.

She has tried to shove me down a flight of stairs. It happened two summers ago in the midst of a miscarriage she suffered.

If you think I'm enjoying people advising me to get divorced, you're crazier than my wife. [/quote]

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