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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]13:01 - call me crazy, but her ex is an adult.  He is making a CHOICE to move away from his kids.  He is prioritizing his relationship with his girlfriend over his relationship with his kids.  How does this translate to the OP taking away his parental rights and his control?  It's not practical for him to have 50/50 if he is CHOOSING TO MOVE AWAY.  If he wanted 50/50, he could stay where he is.

He is angry at the OP because it's easier than facing the reality that he's taking the first step to disappearing from his kid's lives.

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YES! Also, are people ignoring where OP said there are substance abuse issues???? This man is choosing proximity to his girlfriend over proximity to his kids. Why can't the girlfriend move one county over and they set up shop in the middle? This sounds like a guy who is not placing his children first. He wanted his kids to commute 1.5 hrs so that he could live with his girlfriend? That makes no sense. [/quote]

So, its ok when mom's move away and take the kids but not ok for Dad.  It sounds like she was fighting for custody regardless of the move.  There was no reason to take full legal custody as well.  She has in effect terminated his parental rights.  But, I guess Dad's are replaceable.  She probably is remarried or with a new boyfriend and wants to erase Dad.[/quote]

The court said it's not OK so deal.[/quote]

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