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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She IS going to be in their lives. And she should be. You need to get over it.[/quote] Wow. No, the kid with dark skin does not need to hear that they need a bath. That is beyond gross. OP only see her once a year so it should be pretty easy to make sure she is never alone with your children. If she starts making comments like this, I would just get up and say it’s time to go. Obviously, you never stay in the same house as her. DH can stay longer, but you get your children out of there. If she can’t control herself for an yearly visit then the visits become every other year. [/quote] +100[/quote] +1, but I would probably just end the relationship now. These people sound like garbage. I wouldn't subject my kids to hateful speech from people who are supposed to be family. I would also document everything for use in potential divorce proceedings to demonstrate that my husband's family was creating a hostile environment and should have no access to my children. I'm not saying that's the inevitable outcome, but it's best to be prepared.[/quote]
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