Reply to My fiance died recently in a car accident

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "My fiance died recently in a car accident"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]OP, new poster. I’m sorry for your grief, your loss, the isolation, the icing out from yhis family. Big hugs. It’s hard to grieve a vision for the future and having a family try to interrupt that with new drama is dysfunctional. Remove yourself from them, as you said its what he would have wanted. One day, maybe you can write them a letter.

I’m sorry you couldn’t attend he memorial service. It’s possivle that the service held by people he wanted to cut ties from didn’t truly represent who he was. Maybe you can find a unique way to honor him, in his home country. Take a visit there, go to a place where you two held a memory or vision, and plant a tree that will have long standing roots. Water it with your love and perhaps some tears. Visit it from time to time. You can also think about interests he was involved in, and carry that torch - did he have a passion for nature, animals, rights, children, etc? Perhaps involve yourself in some charity work here (or there) that could support it.

Prayer and deepest condolences as you navigate this. Br your life isn’t over. You will rise again, the sun sets in one place to rise in another. Your fiancé would want that for you - and I do to. May peace comfort you in knowing that he experienced your love - and that gift is something that he cherished too. That is a beautiful mark to leave in the world.

Hugs.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics