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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And I meant "continents" -- not countries. I know Africa is a continent. Sigh. I am exhausted mentally and physically by the weight of this grief. And I just feel like no one gets what I've gone through. This is a nightmare situation. To have private communication read by his family on top of losing him is hell. [/quote]

You can't undo what his family saw on his computer.  And I don't think it's that unusual for officials to require an autopsy when a person dies in a car crash. They don't just automatically assume that it was an accident and it is part of the death investigation.

His family probably hacked onto his computer in attempt to get other types of necessary information in order to settle his estate.  Would seems like a huge invasion of your (and his) privacy may have been equally unexpected and shocking to them.

Try to find forgiveness, Op.  Remember everything amazing about your fiance.  Let his love live on in everything that you do.[/quote]

You're totally missing the poiint. Unless you've lost the person you're in love with, you wouldn't understand. I know medically why it was necessary. The reality of having his body sliced open and all his internal organs taken out including his brain is painful for me as the woman who loved this man. My future husband the father of my children - that's who he was supposed to be. I get frustrated trying to express myself because of comments like yours. [/quote]

I get it.  I do.  But when young, healthy people die unexpectedly, death investigations happen.  You can't let your mind dwell on this aspect.  When this happened, he was already gone.  I am so very sorry.[/quote]

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