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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow! How do you know he died? Maybe this is all a big hoax to get you out of his life and that is the reason they want every single thing back from you that links you together. [/quote]

This was my first thought too. Something is off, and it sounds like his family wasn't happy about the relationship. Don't underestimate the weight of family expectations, *especially* in other cultures. Plenty of relationships have ended in the US because a family was against it, and the US has much much much less oppressive family expectations than most other countries. [/quote]

Why wouldn't her fiance be contacting Op, though?  If he's still alive, he is still engaged to her and anticipating getting married and starting a family with her.

Do you think he's being held captive by his family somewhere against his will?  That doesn't seem very likely...[/quote]

No, I don't think he's being held captive. I can't explain what's telling me something is off, it's a gut feeling.

OP, you mentioned you went and lived in SA with him, because you have more financial resources than he did (reasonable). Were you sending him any money when you weren't in country? [/quote]

NO I WAS NOT SENDING HIM MONEY. The speculation is pissing me off. I have already explain above other details that were asked. My fiance has died in a horrific accident and I confirmed it with medical professionals. And your gut feeling is probably just your bowels. [/quote]

Medical professionals can be bribed in other countries and also the police sometimes.  If he has indeed died then maybe the family got him killed etc. There is an angle here that you are not seeing. However, if it is confirmed that he is dead, then let it go and try and rebuild your life without him. [/quote]

Let it go and try to rebuild your life without him? Wow. Please do not ever open your mouth to a grieving person again. You really have no business doing so.[/quote]

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