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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Not cheating[/b], crosses lines, tell your DH. This is a friend of a friend, you may cross paths again and I wouldn’t want to have my DH in the dark about something like this. [b]It’s not a marriage ender[/b], but you are certainly raising concern.[/quote]

really does depend on how sexual the texts were.  if OP said things like "I wish I had passion in my sex life, I miss the fire and heat, where you're just tearing each other's clothes off and can't wait to get to the bedroom.." vs. "I bet you have a nice d*ck, I want to suck your c*ck and I want you to f*ck me every and any way you want"

BIG difference between the two and very much depends on OP's DH would see things.

Again, if the gender roles were reversed, all the women here who are saying "it's no big deal, don't tell him" would be crucifying the guy for having engaged in this type of behavior with another woman. "Didn't you see any other red flags? Dump him and move on.  etc., etc., etc."

OP, you screwed up.  It's the brutal truth but you need to own it. Now you have a choice of what to do - fix it and live with the consequences or pretend it never happened and pray to god this OG (other guy) never confront you or your DH.[/quote]

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