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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you have kids OP?[/quote]

I have one from my previous marriage.[/quote]

This is more of a reason to leave him. I'm reading the thread. He's a narcissist. People like this prey on co-depedents like you. You're exactly what they need. I know it hurts right now, but if you go to CoDa meetings, you'll have language for why your marriages fail. You'll understand so much more about yourself, and you'll be able to attract a healthy person who will love you and treat you well. You also need to do this for your kid's sake. Do you have a dd? You don't want her following in your footsteps. She is learning about relationships as she watches you have them. Do you have a son? Same thing. He's going to attract narcissists. It's what he'll know and feel comfortable with. Please break the cycle.[/quote]

I have a DD. How do I know i am a CoDa? I am usually the strong head in the relationship and my dh was the one giving in all the time, he was also the pursuer and I was the distancer for most of the relationship. [/quote]

You're super co-dependent. Google Dr. Gottman to understand the pursuer-distancer pattern in your failed relationships. Often co-dependent couples switch these roles. It's so horrible. YOU are a narcissist too. [/quote]

^^ Your dd is so f**** if you don't get your shit together. [/quote]

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