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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a DW who supported DH's dream.  Disclaimer is that I was younger and did not have golden handcuffs like OP.  All I will say is this, if OP dissuades her DH from following his dream due to "lifestyle" issues, she better pray to God that the business is not successful.  Because if he passes because of her unwillingness to sacrifice something and the business blows up, he will be resentful to no end. The OP and her DH should sit down, run the numbers and see if it makes sense - it may not and that is ok.  However OP should also have in her pocket some sacrifices she would be willing to make.  Saying "DH, I do not want you to follow your dream because I don't want to make any sacrifices or give up anything" is a death knell to the marriage.

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+1. This is what I’m reading from OP. She wants to make no compromises. OP, it’s fine not to necessarily support your husband in this particular goal if you see it as a risky proposition, but you at least need to hear him out and think about where you can BOTH make sacrifices to have what you want. In this case, it sounds like a second child and a job DH is happier doing every day.[/quote]

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