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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^^the point is that, like most women, her husband, who is supposed to be the #1 priority, slips to like, third or fourth priority. [b]Your marriage should be the utmost priority.[/b] Not a child-centered existence. What is going on here is a completely child-centered existence and an emphasis on material things. I feel bad for DH. He has an opportunity to fulfill his dream in what seems like pretty good and stable circumstances but OP’s desire for new cars and more square footage trumps everything. [/quote]

Exactly. The marriage is #1, NOT one person's crapshoot dream.

Ever watch Shark Tank? Most of those entrepreneurs have/had a full-time job, and worked on their business on the side. It was only once the business was generating enough revenue that they quit their full-time job. If her DH wants to be an entrepreneur, fine, but the current proposal sounds like it will fall through. The partner is admittedly "not a business person", and people like that tend to run businesses right into the ground. He will have no guarantee of an income. If he was single and wanted to risk everything on this sketchy proposal, fine, but he has a wife and child.

If her DH truly wanted to leave his job to fulfill his "dream", he would be looking into several different options and coming up with his own proposals, not just sitting around talking about his dreams until a friend decided to take advantage to help out a likely failing business. [/quote]

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