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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've done both - redshirted and sent an August birthday on time.  Oldest DS has an August birthday.  He started school on time.  He was small for his age - still is.  He is now a senior in HS.  Academically, he has always done fine in school.  [b]Socially, there have been a few hiccups on the way.[/b]  1st grade was a rough transition.  7th grade was really bad - there was one day he was crying because he couldn't open his locker.  I am a little nervous about college.  He will turn 18 and leave home a week later.

Second DS has a late September birthday.  I redshirted him.  He was VERY tall for his age - so not only was he the oldest in his class, he was head and shoulders taller than everyone.  Academically he was advanced up until about 5th grade when everything seemed to even out.  Socially, he fit right into his class until about 5th/6th grade.  He went through puberty a little earlier than some of his friends.  Around that time he seemed much older than a lot of his friends.  He is now a freshman in high school.  He is very athletic so physically he looks much older than many of his classmates.

Do I regret how I handled both situations?  No.  I made the right decision for the right child at the time.

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Isn't this basically true regardless of when you start your kids?  There's always social hiccups along the way, I was right in the middle (June bday back when the cut off was Dec. 31) and of course experienced social hiccups.  My DH was redshirted (a million years ago) and experienced the usual social issues all along the way.  Extreme immaturity is one thing, but thinking that redshirting your kid means smooth sailing in the social arena probably isn't going to be the case.[/quote]

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