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[quote=Anonymous]I don't have anything against frugal people - in fact, I'm trying to be more frugal myself.  I also don't think anything he's done *yet* is out of line or controlling - he's allowed to question you and you are free to either discuss or dismiss.  He hasn't said your son shouldn't get the therapy he needs, but he's made some comments.

HOWEVER, this issue of your disagreement over money management and spending will not go away or get better after marriage - it WILL get worse.  You need to either sit down and come to an agreement honestly and compassionately with each other, or you need to separate because the way you two approach money is just too dissimilar.  He will resent you and you will resent him one way or the other if you carry on without addressing this.  I'd say counseling if you two are married, but since you're not married yet - is it really a relationship you want to take into marriage when it's this much work and you haven't even walked down the aisle?  [/quote]

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