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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]18:26 - responding w/o repasting the long post.  NP here.  Your family is important to you, and he doesn't GAF.  You see them very 5-7 years, and still he is difficult about it?  He doesn't care/understand how important that is to you?  If he is not trying to please you, then who?

My friend married a guy like this - he wanted to go to his family's *destination wedding* in the same country, but different month, than his wife's family (who lives in that country, born and raised).  The wife had not seen her family in decades, and the DCs had not yet met their first cousins.  The DH "reciprocated" by boycotting the next family wedding (this one in the same country as my friend and her DH, not that far away, the hotel was already booked, and they could easily drive there).  Mind you, the wife's side treats the DH like gold, while (let's just say) not so, the other way around.  The DH is as selfish as, you guessed it, the rest of his family.

Have you met anyone on his side and spent a little time with them - to gauge what you are getting into?  I think my friend (with this type of DH) wishes she had!  OP, please do not set a date for this wedding.  You and your son deserve MUCH better people. You sound like a warm person and a hard worker, and you need someone more like you.  [/quote]

I’ve met his sister (3) who all live locally.  I wouldn’t say I’m close with them but they’ve all been very nice and welcoming of me.  They are generally very close which is one thing I actually like about him/them.

His approach to money and I guess me has been weighing on me for a long time.  I thought maybe I was just being too sensitive but perhaps I am not.

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