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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get control of your finances. Get your paperwork in order.

Then he needs a good scare, which may or may not wake him up and make him start doing the work to fight to get you back. He needs to have it hit him in the gut that he's lost you and the kids.

As it stands, he has the luxury to still be moping and conflicted at this point. He's still invested elsewhere and lying to you, and has relapsed, which means he's still in the fog. He is too sure of you, and feels free to fantasize and long for his escape, his addictive sexual and emotional high.

He hasn't really addressed his underlying issues either, which will keep coming back and making him act out again, as a PP pointed out. Unless he focuses on that, nothing will get better. You need to focus on your (likely codependent) issues too, so you can protect yourself and your kids.

I get that you have to play it carefully because you don't want your kids to have to be around whatever trainwreck woman he may end up with.

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OP here.  This makes a lot of sense.  Thank you.[/quote]

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