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+1 he should punch these fiends in the face[/quote]

The friends are not the problem tho. THEY are being loyal to HIM...and reminding him of all the terrible things he said about this horrible horrible (according to lying husband) woman he married and two of them are even taking drastic measures (the silent treatment pact) to push him to rid himself of this albatross of a woman!

OP...your husband did this to you. The friends are only guilty of believing him and defending him and sticking up for him when they THINK he is not doing it. A letter (especially the one you describe that DH is "comfortable" with--one that confesses to nothing and just says "honest guys...DW is great") will only make them feel MORE sorry for him b/c they will be convinced that he sent it b/c the old ball and chain biotch made him! It will make it WORSE for you, not better!

The truth is likely that he doesn't want to come clean b/c he either really did mean all the things he said and has never loved you (not super likely if he is still pleading for you to forgive him for this rather than making an exit) or he is a complete coward when it comes to his friends.

He needs to own this and tell them TO THEIR FACES when you are there what went down. If he will not, then he must cut them out of his life. Period.

If you say "he won't do that" well then there is your answer. Pack your bags and go.[/quote]

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