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Reply to "Can you bounce back from being bad-mouthed to spouse's friends?"
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[quote=Anonymous] My personal opinion are that letters are the wrong way to go. Number one, you need to speak to a counselor before either of you takes another step with the friends. When the time comes to approach them, I would be in favor of him inviting everyone over, together, and then in front of you, he admits to what he's been doing and answers any questions they have. He also has to lay out new ground rules, including no bashing you, no trashing his marriage, and you are included in all group events from here on out. Anyone who can't be a friend of the marriage has to go. You should stay as silent as possible and let him take every last ounce of the heat. It is time he stood up for you. You need to see it happen. If his friends hate you after this, then they need to be let go. Their feelings about that really aren't relevant.[/quote] +1000 BRAVO! *Standing ovation!* THIS! [/quote]
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