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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you just assuming she wants to have your children? Have you asked her? Has the thought that she may not even want children crossed your mind? [/quote]

Op here. I was up front that I was looking for something serious because I don’t want to waste my time on a meaningless relationship. She agreed that she was also looking for the same. We are newly dating but we have discussed that we both want 2-3 kids.

I am really not crazy or pushy. I understand hard work, and her going to school was one of the things that attracted me to her. I love her ambition and motivation to better herself and her life. I worked hard for my degree and in my career. I was previously dating a woman for 2 years. She cheated and left me for her high school boyfriend once he divorced his wife. I’ve been single for 2 years with minor relationships here and there. I am tired of it. I want a family to come to every night. Majority of my friends are married and having kids, and it’s lonely being the only single one. [/quote]

Yeah you seem much more interesting in the idea of a family than the sacrifice of being with someone who maybe doesn't align exactly with the rosy picture you've painted in your head.  Leave her be and try to find someone who just cares about having a family.  There's a woman that posted about wanting to find site for those who want to be SAWHs, maybe you guys should get together![/quote]

You are very rude. If this was a woman who posted this, there would be 50 people telling her to leave the guy and find a more committed man. Why is it wrong when OP wants the same? Many men desire to have a family. There is nothing wrong with OP knowing what he wants and making that a priority. He has every right to happy life.[/quote]

NP here but I would say the same thing about a woman. No one should get married and have kids to not be lonely and keep up with their friends.[/quote]

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