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Reply to "For others in long term affairs-- do you think you'll get caught? Did you get caught? How?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It just depends on whether people decide to blow up other people’s marriages or not. I’m in the ‘not’ category - you never know what is going on in someone else’s house. When the Ashley Madison list came out, I checked it just to double check my DH wasn’t on it (he wasn’t, I didn’t think he would be) but two men I knew were. For one of them, it was a mutual friend so I had my DH tip him off that he was on the list, because if I could find it, so,could his wife and he needed to decide whether to chance it or not. Neither my DH or I would ever tell the wife ourselves. For the other, he was on the list three times, and I only know the wife who is very sweet and a happy joyful person. I’m not blowing up her world, because ultimately she’s the one who pays the price. I also have a suspicion she doesn’t like sex much, so for all I know he was on there with her permission, and it might force her hand that she has to ‘do something’ if she knows her friends know. So I never told a soul.[/quote] Lots of conjecture here.[/quote]
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