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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I got caught and it was humiliating. I was in another city with my AP/business colleague and we were hugging while coming down the elevator when it stopped on a lower floor and a friend of my husband and mine walked on and saw us. He said hello and turned his back to me. Later he sent me a text that said "you tell him or I will." I told him and we divorced within a year. I was such a fool for giving up a good life because someone was really attracted to me. Thank God there were no children involved but three years later I'm still in this emotional and relationship limbo. You don't think you will be caught but sooner or later you will be so be prepared to pay the price.[/quote]

Wow, I have a lot of respect for that guy who texted you and said "you tell him or I will".  Now that's a decent man!  Seems like most men would just as soon keep someone's affair a secret on the grounds that it's none of their business and who cares who gets hurt.[/quote]

I don't know.  I think that women would think twice.  How many posts on here are "I know my friend Judy's husband is cheating; should I tell her?"  And tons of people say no.

But men I think have a stronger sense of male loyalty.  A man will tell another an his wife is cheating, but a man would probably wouldn't tell the wife of a buddy if he knows his buddy is cheating.

This is where I think men make better friends than women.  I'm sure that's sexist.  But the rules of friendship are clearer between men than between women.[/quote]

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