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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I was with you on the soup thing, but you lost me with your church complaint. Going to church is obviously your choice, yet you think that your husband should do chores while you're there? First thing in the morning on a weekend? Do you think he needs penance for not attending church when you think he should?

Now, if you said the two of you had agreed to do an hour of household chores together every Sunday, and then he sat on the couch the whole time, I'd be more sympathetic.[/quote]

I don't care when he does the chores but given that our 1 year old is not home it's the ideal time to do something.  He takes a 2-3 hour nap w/ our toddler when we come home from church. It just frustrates me that he doesn't do anything. He could pick up toys, sweep crumbs, fold the laundry instead of throwing it on the sofa. 
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If you don't care when he gets some things done - a fair and mutually agreed upon set of chores, not an edict - then don't bitch when he chills out. Bitch when things aren't done as mutually agreed upon: by Sunday night in time for the workweek maybe.[/quote]

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