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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Anonymous wrote:
There are good therapists out there. My [b]ex [/b]was having an affair, but refused to admit it or discuss it in therapy. He denied, denied, denied, and turned it around and wanted to focus our therapy sessions on why all the trust had gone from our marriage.... like it was just something that happened without any reason. He wanted to talk about everything he thought was wrong with me that made him unhappy. I was clear with the therapist that I knew he was having at least an emotional affair with a coworker, but he refused to discuss it. After a half dozen sessions or so, she told me that it would be unethical to keep seeing us as a couple because she found my [b]ex's [/b]actions emotionally abusive towards me and she couldn't be a part of that.

So yeah.... there are some good ones. Marriage counseling ONLY has a chance of working if the affair is ended, no contact, full stop. No exceptions. Even then it's not guaranteed, but if the affair is ongoing you mit as well flush the money down the toilet.

Come on admit it. It gave you a reason to not end the marriage. You got to hear his fake "I'm sorry", he walked the walk and did his penance so you wouldn't leave and get 1/2 the assets and child support.

It's done for now until the next one. He'll just be smarter next time. And you're still in a dysfunctional relationship with a creep. Yet going to a therapist will keep you in that cycle because you can tell everyone it's helped and he's changed....meaning..waste of your life and time..
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Pp here.  Wow, did you even read my post before responding?  He's my EX husband, as I mentioned several times.  I left him, divorce is final.

Try reading and absorbing what people are saying before you formulate your response.  Being obtuse is not a good look. 
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