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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Overreacting. They didn't show up without your knowledge or permission. You invited them and they came early. That is a big difference. It may be rude, that's certainly arguable, but it's not a major boundary overstep. I get that it has disrupted your day - I don't like unexpected people in my space either - but there is no reason to make a big deal of this.[/quote] Um, they were supposed to arrive in the evening and their son was getting off work early to be home in time to open the door and greet them. No key necessary. Ding-dong, they're here, open the door. The key was given in case of emergencies, and for the purpose of child care during a hospital visit. That's it. Grandpa had to poop is not an emergency--if he wanted to poop at his son's house instead of a McDonald's he could have picked up the phone and called. It IS a major boundary overstep.[/quote]
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