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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, don't listen to the people who say privacy at all costs. Logging into your spouse's email -- with permission that has spanned years!! -- to do chores is perfectly fine

My DH has my passwords and email etc. He may not remember them, but if he needs something I will just tell him to go look in my email. Which he does. And it is OK.

[b]The fact that it WAS ok, and now is NOT ok that you do this, and that your marriage is a little rocky, and that he slept over at somebody else's house (a buddy, or a fuc& buddy?) is a red flag to me.[/b][/quote]
AGREE WITH ALL...In our marriage, we do everything jointly, we both have access to all accounts/cars/everything.What email would I get that I need "privacy" for? And vice versa?   OP: Sorry, but I am afraid of the red flag[/quote]

I guess that works for you, but it sounds crazy and controlling to me.

And how do you even know that neither of you has email accounts the other doesn't even know about? That's easy enough to achieve.[/quote]

Of course we could have secret emails. It isn't like DH goes into my email on a regular basis (I don't think), I don't think he's ever gone into an account of mine without asking. But he could if he wanted to. And it works for us. Maybe not for you. [b]But the fact that the OP's husband has suddenly decided he doesn't want to share -- that's the red flag. The about-face[/b]. [/quote]
+1[/quote]

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