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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, don't listen to the people who say privacy at all costs. Logging into your spouse's email -- with permission that has spanned years!! -- to do chores is perfectly fine

My DH has my passwords and email etc. He may not remember them, but if he needs something I will just tell him to go look in my email. Which he does. And it is OK.

[b]The fact that it WAS ok, and now is NOT ok that you do this, and that your marriage is a little rocky, and that he slept over at somebody else's house (a buddy, or a fuc& buddy?) is a red flag to me.[/b][/quote]
AGREE WITH ALL...In our marriage, we do everything jointly, we both have access to all accounts/cars/everything.What email would I get that I need "privacy" for? And vice versa?   OP: Sorry, but I am afraid of the red flag[/quote]

I guess that works for you, but it sounds crazy and controlling to me.

And how do you even know that neither of you has email accounts the other doesn't even know about? That's easy enough to achieve.[/quote]

People are entitled to privacy.  I am allowed to vent to my best friend when my husband drives me crazy, and vice versa.  Those aren't conversations that either of us need to hear.  Yes, if it's a real problem, we will discuss it.  But if my best friend and I want to laugh about how clueless men are about something, we should be able to do that without the other person reading it.  People who say they read their spouse's texts, emails, etc., and therefore feel secure make me laugh.  It's not hard to delete texts, emails, or, as PP noted, have separate accounts.  [/quote]

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