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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m in a close to sexless marriage and don’t know what to do.  We’ve been married for four years and sex has never been that consistent.  He’s a once a week guy.  He used to drink a lot and couldn’t perform when he’d been drinking.  I was often very frustrated sexually.  Looking back, I should have left.

Then I got pregnant.  He wouldn’t have sex with me while pregnant as he couldn’t stay hard.  I went almost a year not having sex.  Our son is almost a 1.5 and on average we have sex once a month.  I have so much resentment that even if he wanted to have sex, I don’t want to.

Has anyone dealt with this and turned the marriage around?  I don’t even know where to start.

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Resentment is a big one whatever the cause.

If it's once a week I don't see a problem there. It seems to be your resentment at this point.  Reading some of the other posts there are some immature and needy people on here.  I wouldn't want someone pawing me 2-3 times a week because I want my own time, not feeling pressured by someone who can't control their needs or respect another's boundaries.  Quite a few on here who probably shouldn't be married to begin with.  You can find someone else OP, but with a child it's not going to be easy or perfect with the next person.

I would look at the entire relationship. How is he in other parts of the relationship?[/quote]

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