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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m in a close to sexless marriage and don’t know what to do.  We’ve been married for four years and sex has never been that consistent.  He’s a once a week guy.  He used to drink a lot and couldn’t perform when he’d been drinking.  I was often very frustrated sexually.  Looking back, I should have left.

Then I got pregnant.  He wouldn’t have sex with me while pregnant as he couldn’t stay hard.  I went almost a year not having sex.  Our son is almost a 1.5 and on average we have sex once a month.  I have so much resentment that even if he wanted to have sex, I don’t want to.

Has anyone dealt with this and turned the marriage around?  I don’t even know where to start.

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I can’t believe you think having sex once a month is “close to sexless.”!

Some of us have gone years. [/quote]

Since sexless is defined as &lt;10x/year, so yes, they are close to sexless. Your pain doesn't negate hers. I'm sorry you've gone years without sex.[/quote]
I find it hard to feel much sympathy for somebody who allows this kind of treatment by staying with a sexless partner, and not Opening the marriage. The innocent victim card has a shelf life, you need to take responsibility for your own happiness. After "years" this is now on you![/quote]

Yep, I agree.
 Take your sex life into your own hands.  Wife doesn’t want to be part of it?  That’s her loss.  And vise Versace.[/quote]

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