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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a woman and I would prefer a text. [/quote]

Me too. Both sending and receiving a breakup text. [/quote]

Good God, its called common courtesy & consideration for another human that you've chosen to spend the past 3 months with.   How completely self centred of you.

Let me know how that feels the first time a guy you really like cuts of communication with you like that.

My guess is you won't like it. [/quote]

But the flip side is weirdly selfish too.  How would that go?

"Bob, can you meet me for coffee, we need to talk"
"Sure, let's meet after work at Starbucks"

You're both sitting there with your coffees.
"Bob, I just wanted to tell you that I think this isn't going to work for me and think we should stop seeing each other."

"Uh.... okay.  Bye."  [get's up and leaves thinking - why did she make me come all the way out here just to end things so I can turn around and go back home?][/quote]

I get it, but there's a huge difference between a cold, uncaring text that basically says I dont have enough respect for you to actually treat you civilly & making a phone call so he can hear the inflections of your voice & you don't come off as a cold hearted bitch.

Nobody said it had to be in person - over the phone is perfectly decent, but to allow Siri to deliver the message because you're (not YOU per se) a coward or too self absorbed to care about the other persons feelings, its just asking for karma to repay you the same way in the future. [/quote]

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