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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Guy (happily married Dad) posting. I may be confused. If I tell a woman I like her earrings, is that flirting? Does it matter if she is working the Checkout at my local bagel place, versus she is a parent of one of my kids’ classmates, versus someone who works in my building?  I always thought I was just being friendly, but maybe you’re telling me I’m flirting without realizing it (or at least you think I’m flirting). If I tell you I like your earrings, it’s because I like them, not because I want to make out with you. 
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If you would compliment a man's jewelry then maybe you're just being nice. If you wouldn't, then you're absolutely flirting by mentioning earrings because there is a gendered, sexual component to your flattery.[/quote]

Woman here. Oh COME ON. I tell my male coworkers all the time when I think they have a nice jacket or tie on or whatever, and I'm pretty sure they don't think I'm flirting with them. My male boss likewise compliments me (and various other women) on clothes, hair, or something in our offices, and no one thinks he is a creep (because he's not).[/quote]

It only takes [i]one[/i] woman to think he is a creep for him to get fired. He is stupid to take the chance. [/quote]

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