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[quote=Anonymous]Those who say it doesn't matter -- you're kidding yourself. When someone's appearance changes radically from how they looked when a relationship started, it's very likely their partner will become less attracted to them. Not always, but often. My husband's weight has fluctuated a lot since we first started dating. After initially losing 50 lbs, he has gained about 20 back (putting him at about 10 lbs overweight). It's all in his chest/stomach area. He doesn't want to be overweight, eats well, but simply doesn't have time to exercise regularly. Do I love him less? Absolutely not. Am I less attracted to him now? A little bit. I just ignore that part of his body, frankly, when we're being intimate. The sex is still amazing. [/quote]
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