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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did anyone find that with you were not bothered by some pregnancies but really, really upset about others? There are multiple pregnant women in my life right now, but only one pregnancy that really upsets me. [/quote]

Yes but for me it's two of my friends whose pregnancies really bothered me but others not at all.[/quote]

Why those two friends specifically? [/quote]

One close friend (we were in each others weddings) has fibroids and kept saying repeatedly how she didn't think she'd get pregnant so easily but bam, pregnant.  The other one (whom I've known since I was 12) got my son shoes as a bday present a few years ago, they were the wrong size and I asked where she got them so I could get a new size and she texted "save them for the second kid ;-)".  She didn't and doesn't know our fertility struggle but the text just came off as "getting pregnant is so easy, don't worry about".  She got pregnant really quickly with her second and it just rubbed me the wrong way.  As another poster said, there is no rhyme or reason, with some friends it just hits a nerve while others don't.  [/quote]

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