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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please respond OP. We are wondering how you are feeling BLAMED?   In any case, instruct DH to change his wording. Instead of "I need to check with Jill"....."I need to check the calendar."[/quote]
This is OP. My DH always defends me, but they will tell him that I should do whatever I want with my time when he’s gone, and he should be able to choose what he wants with his time (ie, he should be seeing them) And yes, occasionally I get together with DH family when he’s away for work. It’s a really strange dynamic. [/quote]

So take them literally, and let your DH deal with his parents. You haven’t said what kind of problems this is actually creating for you.  Are the in-laws writing you out of the will?  Refusing to speak to you? [b] Calling incessantly until you cave? [/b] Giving you horrible holiday gifts?[/quote]
This. And guilt tripping DH, as mentioned above.

It’s not so much creating a problem as it is annoying. Every. Weekend. We get the “what are we doing” call. [/quote]

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