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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]IMO, 16 is too young, but then again, if you know they at having sex better under your roof than behind the school, parking lot, forest, etc...As hard as it is to come to terms with such activity as parents, better in a safe environment.[/quote]

How old are your children?[/quote]

18 and 16, with 16 DD who had a boyfriend. Sleeping over never happened, but I sure told her, if there is anything going on, it better be under my roof, and not some backseat of a car, park or walk in the neighborhood. Door was open all the time when boyfriend was over, I'd rather know what is going on, I am not a fool. Would you seriously rather have them hiding out in parks and behind the school? It is not ideal in any situation, but if they are having sex, provide education and protection and safety. I do not think I would allow sleepover with boyfriend at 16, but 4,5 hour hanging out at my place, definitely. And did allow it. Much can be done in that time, and I always made sure I was home, as well as if she went to his house, his mom and I texted to make sure she was at home. It takes some planning and effort, but teens will be teens, and we are not in Saudi Arabia or similar.[/quote]

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