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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I think this perception comes from the reality that women are more receptive to approaches from attractive men, which is perfectly reasonable. There is less of a chance of an attractive guy not respecting her boundaries because her boundaries are more "open" to him anyway. An unattractive guy is going to run into the Great Wall of China. Any move he makes to get past this boundary is creepy by default. He just doesn't have as much wiggle room.[/quote] This is true and, I think it's important to add, that's o.k. Women, like men, are entitled to have their preferences. Folks usually don't bag on men for having their preferences in who they decide to approach. Similarly, women shouldn't be scolded for who they decide to receive. [/quote] Absolutely. And let's be clear -- the problem for unattractive men is not that women are asking not to have their boundaries pushed, it' that they are unattractive (whatever that means). Even if women are forced to loosen their boundaries (gross, but anyway), they still won't find them attractive. And that does not change unless the men change -- either something about their grooming, or appearance, or social presence, or even the choice of women they approach.[/quote]
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