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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If a guy does A but you think he is hot and cool, then you think he is charming.

If a guy does A but you think he is unattractive and awkward, then you think he is creepy.

Two guys can do the exact same thing...and one be seen as creepy and the other seen as charming.

Over the top creepiness like someone staring in your window or making lewd gestures or comments would apply across the attractiveness continuum but most things people call creepy are more about the person than the action[/quote]

Female here and this is totally not true. A man you initially find attractive can quickly lose appeal and be viewed as creepy.[/quote]

I think this perception comes from the reality that women are more receptive to approaches from attractive men, which is perfectly reasonable. There is less of a chance of an attractive guy not respecting her boundaries because her boundaries are more "open" to him anyway. An unattractive guy is going to run into the Great Wall of China. Any move he makes to get past this boundary is creepy by default. He just doesn't have as much wiggle room.[/quote]

This is true and, I think it's important to add, that's o.k. Women, like men, are entitled to have their preferences. Folks usually don't bag on men for having their preferences in who they decide to approach. Similarly, women shouldn't be scolded for who they decide to receive. [/quote]

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