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[quote=Anonymous]Of course you can get through this and get to a better place. But it's going to take a lot of work on both your and your husband's part. You didn't get to this place overnight and it won't be resolved overnight or in a few sessions with a therapist. Your both going to have to be brutally honest with each other and most importantly with yourselves. It sounds like you and he have both taken steps in that direction, which is a good sign.

When something like this happens, it's best not to make any huge life decisions. Commit to seeking out both couples and individual counselors. Do not commit to anything, including breaking up OR staying together forever. You're going to be in a different and challenging space for a  while as you both reorient yourselves and figure out a new relationship with one another.

You have a lot on the line, mainly 2 young children. It sounds like neither of you want to throw that away and want them to have a loving family where both parents love one another.

The easy solution would be to simply leave. You are brave for even entertaining the idea of trying to make this work. I do hope it works out for you. Peace to you.  [/quote]

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