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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm curious what culture regularly entertains clients at strip clubs.  Yuck.  [/quote]

East Asian cultures.  And they're not exactly strip clubs, but that's the closest American equivalent.[/quote]

I get to sit in on lots of East Asian guy talk, and the guys who take part in this "strip club" stuff are also paying for sex. They're not going to tell you this happens, of course. Sorry. [/quote]
+1. I'm a lawyer with a lot of East Asian clients. Frequenting strip clubs [I]and[/i] prostitutes is a common business practice. OP, part of why he has so  easily cast you in the role of mommy is because you, yourself, have the personality of a typical mommy in denial: "My baby would never do that!" Meanwhile, he's doing exactly what you are too cowardly to acknowledge. You both have issues.[/quote]

This is OP.  As you guys said, it's a common business practice.  So 100% of East Asian white collar male workers are having sex with prostitutes?  Because in our home country, it is literally 100 (or maybe 90%) of white collar males who go to these bars because they are forced to go with their coworkers.

As to DH, it's not that I think he is incapable of cheating, but it doesn't fit with his psychology.  He goes out with his friends and parties because it makes him feel like a big guy.  He has medication-induced ED and an affair or one night stand would expose him to humiliation if he couldn't get it up, which would make him feel the opposite of a big guy.  I don't deny there might be some physical contact.  I am open to the possibility that he is having sex because I have to be prepared for the worse, but think it is not likely.  [/quote]

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