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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand posts like this or people who ask (weekly) if a no gifts invitation is actually no gifts. Take people at their word. If your DH seems disappointed on Christmas morning then ask him if he wants to go back to getting a gift next year.[/quote] Well remember most of the posts here are women. This is part of the mind games women play. If you do not play these games, you run the risk of avoiding drama.[/quote] I’m a woman and when I say no gifts, I really mean no gifts. We don’t exchange gifts for anniversaries or Valentines Day. Cards are expected. I’ve never said no gifts for Christmas but I could see setting a cap like $20 someday. My in-laws go all out for Christmas so that is part of the challenge of opening our gifts to each other in front of them if we were to set a small cap and can afford more (which we can).[/quote]
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