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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH won me over with effort. Now married for 10 years with 3 kids. Don’t think I can be in this loveless passionless dead marriage any longer. I am childcare. We talk about child logistics and that’s it. I’m so resentful. I gave up my lucrative career to stay home. DH takes me for granted. I seriously cannot stand my husband and feel totally stuck. Yesterday I told him I want out and [b]he just brushed me off and said he was the best I could do.[/b]

I want to run away and restart. Then I look at my children’s sweet faces and can’t leave.[/quote]

He actually said that he was the best you could do? Wow. I'd see that as a challenge.

Work on yourself, OP. Shape up. Plan your exit. Get some childcare for the kids and either go back to your career (full time or part time) or start a business or side job. Get yourself in control of your finances. Look after yourself. Get your power back.[/quote]

+1. Many men don't respect their wives once they become SAHMs and stop putting in effort because SAHMs often ARE stuck. My own marriage improved once I got back in shape, got a job, and became a self-supporting adult because DH knew I had options and other men were taking an interest in me. 
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So much this.[/quote]

Right, WOHMs get divorced less and little kids love being in daycare  :roll: [/quote]

Actually plenty of little kids love daycare.  [/quote]
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A lot of kids, especially toddlers, really enjoy the socialization.  And there are many studies that show at certain ages it can be more enriching for children to be in a quality daycare. [/quote]

I agree, but for how many hours a day? 5-6 hours? Sure. 9-10 hours? not so much.[/quote]

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