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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No need to have one. After 35 years my DW still has still got it going in so many ways. Sex at least once and often twice a week and she continues to be inventive as well as initiate. [/quote]

Lucky you - maybe she should give lessons or at least have a podcast! After 35 years how does one be inventive?[/quote]

Woman here... I get this; it's about both taking your wedding vows seriously and staying in a certain mindset.  It's not that we won't find others attractive, it's that we don't act upon it or give others something to talk about.  Our loyalty is also a huge turn-on for both of us.

Trust me, my s/o notices every attractive woman he encounters but as long as he doesn't cheat on or embarrass me with behaviors that make people speculate about his character, I'm good with it and I don't dishonor him or our relationship either.

I encourage him to "go out with the boys" so he can get it out of his system ;)
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I agree with you. We've always had a you can look but not touch rule - we're both human. I'm proud that we have been married a very long time and that the sex is still so good that we have no need to go elsewhere.

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So it's not just staying hot, it's staying hot AND frequent/good sex? Or can you just have frequent/good sex? [/quote]

Perhaps not quite that simple ;)  You have to want each other and WANT to want each other over the long-hall which means finding ways to appreciate and LIKE your partner through the highs and lows!  That's why it takes work - you may have to be more engaged in the process sometimes but it's so worth it.
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