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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s not bad luck that you repeatedly got involved with shitty men. It’s by choice. Seek therapy for your issues.[/quote]

No, it's due to the pure number of shitty men out there these days. Are you single and dating? If not, then you have no clue.[/quote]

Keep making excuses for your life. I’m sure it will help you out in the long term.[/quote]

It absolutely has. I will not be a doormat. I will not be treated badly. I will not be abused. I will not be lied to or cheated on. I will. To take care of a total bum deadbeat. I've walked away from men who have done all of these things, and yes walking away has helped me out for the long term.

Maybe one day I will meet a nice man who is what he says he is and treats me well. Maybe.

But from a pure numbers perspective, whether you believe it or not, [b]there are many guys out there who are not good to women. They are unkind, not truthful, abusive, only want to be fwb, deadbeats, etc. there are loads of these types, and if you've been dating recently you would know that.[/quote][/b]

+1000 A lot of men out there seem to think that they are some type of "prize" that women are "lucky" to get. They want (& expect sex) if they buy you a damn cup of coffee. They ask you to dinner and then ask you to split the check because they say "I don't want to insult you". Went out with one a-hole this weekend. After 1 cup of coffee & a bagel for the first date, then , a very cheap dinner at TGIF (2 appetizers & WATER that we split!), he asked if I wanted to go to his place or he could come to mine next time...Yeah, NO next time..Rather go out with my girlfriends.   [/quote]

Shitty men will change if women stop dating them(or break up with them when they notice the shitty qualities).

Every single one of my girlfriends' marriages have issues that they and I saw before they got married. They chose to ignore or accept these issues. Now some complain and some want out.
They made their beds...

My husband's has weaknesses too(and so do I of course), and I too knew what I was getting into, and I am very happy with my choice. [/quote]

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