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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All is not fair in dating. Make sure the man pursues the hell out of you. If that's the case, the relationship will be smoother. In terms of romance, men should take the lead. unfortunately men haven't totally evolved past cave man. [/quote]

I'm not sure if this is great advice.

This just ensures that you only date aggressively flirty types who see you as a conquest. She might be better off taking more initiative in choosing her boyfriends. Also, as dating apps become more the norm, and approaching women at the office/in public becomes less socially acceptable, the old "men chase women" paradigm is becoming less relevant. [/quote]

+1.  I used to only date people who pursued me hard and it was a mistake.  It turned out that tbey don't have respect for boundaries, which is not a great quality in a relationship.

I weed people out of my life more agressively now when I see any dishonesty, lack of transparency or discourtesy, whereas I used to give second chances and think "everyone makes mistakes."   It is true everyone makes mistakes, but I am not a source of on the job relationship training for men.  Go away and learn lessons and be ready for the next person in your life, but not me.  I watch behavior more than I listen to words.  I have fewer long relationships and more dates, but I am happier. [/quote]

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