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[quote=Anonymous]Hey OP, so sorry to hear what you are going through! I think you should look at getting a job with fewer hours. If you can afford to outsource some things (like cooking, cleaning, etc), do that. Definitely impose some new rules and consequences for the kids in terms of their performance at home and at school. Expect it to be tough at the beginning. Make sure you carve out some time for yourself, whether that is gym time during the week, or scheduling a monthly massage, mani/pedi, etc. You can't help anyone if you are stressed. Make yourself a priority. Pick your battles when it comes to your husband. Decide what is really important to you in terms of the household, chores, etc, and let those things be the only 'hills to die on' so to speak. [/quote]
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