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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: thanks for the advice. I am not nagging when I say I've talked to him, I've mentioned it a couple times in the last 6 months. We dated 4 years and even first year of marriage no sex drive issues, just severely declined in the last 6 months. He is very affectionate in other ways, hugs, cards, kisses, flowers, but not sure what changed sexually. I know every couple goes through end and flows but can't imagine if this is supposed to be the rest of my life .....[/quote]

Do not take this wrong but how difficult are you to have sex with? Do you make a lot of demands- touch here, do not touch there, this position only, take a long time to get going, make it seems like a huge favor to have sex, etc? Also many women are just bad in bed. Men will put up with that for a while but over the long term the interest just declines.

On another note, sexual fantasies are very narrow. An example you like your arms held down during sex but not rough sex. You really have to talk to your partner and understand what they like about a fantasy. If you don’t it can quickly turn the other person off or it can turn you off. Also you have to keep an open mind and remember it’s just for fun. [/quote]

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